{"id":115,"date":"2007-04-18T13:00:46","date_gmt":"2007-04-18T13:00:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/2007\/04\/18\/farkliliklar-ve-iletisim-2\/"},"modified":"2007-04-18T13:00:46","modified_gmt":"2007-04-18T13:00:46","slug":"farkliliklar-ve-iletisim-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/2007\/04\/18\/farkliliklar-ve-iletisim-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Farkl\u0131l\u0131klar ve \u0130leti\u015fim"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u0130nsanlar birbiriyle s\u00fcrekli ileti\u015fim halindeler: \u0130\u015fte, evde ve sosyal ortamlarda. Her ne kadar birbirimizi iyi anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 san\u0131yorsak da, ileti\u015fim pek de kolay bir i\u015f de\u011fildir ve Ralph Waldo Emerson\u2019\u0131n dedi\u011fi gibi \u201cAnla\u015f\u0131lmak bir l\u00fckst\u00fcr<\/span>\u201d. <\/font><\/span><\/p>\n

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Nas\u0131l konu\u015ftu\u011fumuz, meseleler \u00fczerinde nas\u0131l tart\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ve gruplara nas\u0131l kat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ki\u015finin \u201ck\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc\u201d ile ilgilidir. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman, meselelere farkl\u0131 yakla\u015f\u0131mlara ve kiminle konu\u015ftu\u011fumuza ba\u011fl\u0131 olarak farkl\u0131 tarzda ileti\u015fim bi\u00e7imlerine \u015fahit oluruz. <\/font><\/span><\/p>\n

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Hi\u00e7 ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n tarz\u0131na dair yarg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bir tarafa b\u0131rakarak farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 oldu\u011fu gibi kabul etti\u011finiz olur mu? <\/font><\/span><\/p>\n

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Yoksa tarz\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n di\u011fer insanlar\u0131n tarz\u0131ndan daha uygun oldu\u011fu ve onlar\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fmesi gerekti\u011fi \u00a0konusunda \u0131srarc\u0131 m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z? E\u011fer durum b\u00f6yleyse, bir kez daha d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Hepimiz ayn\u0131 anda bir\u00e7ok k\u00fclt\u00fcre aidiz. The National Institute for Dispute Resolution, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc \u201cd\u00fcnyay\u0131 anlama bi\u00e7imimizi \u015fekillendiren ortak deneyimleri payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z grup veya camia\u201d olarak tan\u0131ml\u0131yor. \u201cBuna cinsiyetimiz ve vatan\u0131m\u0131z gibi do\u011fu\u015ftan i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fumuz gruplar\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra, bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olmak i\u00e7in kat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z gruplar da dahildir. \u00d6rne\u011fin, yeni bir b\u00f6lgeye ta\u015f\u0131nmak suretiyle veya ekonomik stat\u00fcm\u00fczdeki de\u011fi\u015fimle yeni bir k\u00fclt\u00fcr edinebiliriz.\u201d <\/font><\/span><\/p>\n

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K\u00fclt\u00fcrler aras\u0131 daha iyi ileti\u015fim kurabilmek i\u00e7in, \u201cbenden farkl\u0131\u201dy\u0131 \u201cbenden de\u011fersiz\u201d \u015feklinde anlamaya y\u00f6nelik insani e\u011filimi kontrol alt\u0131na almay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmenin faydas\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fcr. K\u00fclt\u00fcrel farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131n nerede yer ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 tespit edebilirsek, bunu birbirine kar\u015f\u0131 sayg\u0131 ve bir di\u011ferini kabul takip edecektir.<\/span><\/font><\/p>\n

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\nDi\u011fer k\u00fclt\u00fcrlerden gelen insanlar hakk\u0131nda bir \u015feyler \u00f6\u011frenmeye a\u00e7\u0131k oldu\u011fumuzda daha az yaln\u0131zl\u0131k \u00e7ekti\u011fimizi g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. \u00d6nyarg\u0131 ve kli\u015feler, de\u011fi\u015fim i\u00e7in \u00e7aba g\u00f6sterirken, bize dost ve ortak olabilecek gruplar dolusu insandan ayr\u0131 d\u00fc\u015fmemize neden olabilir. Oysaki bizden farkl\u0131 insanlarla konu\u015fmak bize umut vererek, i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fumuz toplumu ve d\u00fcnyay\u0131 geli\u015ftirmek \u00fczere girece\u011fimiz m\u00fccadelede g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc art\u0131r\u0131r. <\/font><\/span>\u00a0<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n

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Bireyin davran\u0131\u015f\u0131na k\u00fclt\u00fcrel normlar\u0131n mutlaka uygulanabilir olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da hat\u0131rlamal\u0131y\u0131z. Hepimiz -etnik k\u00f6kenimiz, ailemiz, e\u011fitimimiz, ki\u015filiklerimiz gibi- herhangi bir k\u00fclt\u00fcrel normun ifade edebilece\u011finden \u00e7ok daha karma\u015f\u0131k pek \u00e7ok unsur taraf\u0131ndan \u015fekillendirilmi\u015f durumday\u0131z. <\/font><\/span>\u00a0<\/font><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Birbirimizi anlamak ve beraber \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilmek i\u00e7in, ayn\u0131 zamanda mevcut g\u00fc\u00e7 dengesizliklerinin fark\u0131nda olmam\u0131z ve s\u00f6z konusu dengesizlikler konusunda bir di\u011ferimizin alg\u0131lay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 duymaya haz\u0131r olmam\u0131z da gerekir. <\/span><\/font><\/p>\n

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Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n sizinle ileti\u015fime girip girmemek konusundaki tercihlerine sayg\u0131l\u0131 olmal\u0131, olup bitenle ilgili fikirlerine de\u011fer vermeye \u00f6zen g\u00f6stermeliyiz. Yarg\u0131lamay\u0131 bir kenara b\u0131rak\u0131p, duruma d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan birisi gibi bakmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131z. Aktif ve g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc bi\u00e7imde dinlemeyi prensip hale getirebilmeliyiz. Bu gibi durumlarda kendinizi di\u011fer ki\u015finin yerine koymaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. \u00d6zellikle de bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n alg\u0131lay\u0131\u015f veya fikirlerinin sizinkinden \u00e7ok daha farkl\u0131 olmas\u0131 halinde kendinizi rahat hissetti\u011finiz alan\u0131n s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 zorlama gere\u011fi hissedebilirsiniz. <\/font><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u0130nsanlar birbiriyle s\u00fcrekli ileti\u015fim halindeler: \u0130\u015fte, evde ve sosyal ortamlarda. Her ne kadar birbirimizi iyi anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 san\u0131yorsak da, ileti\u015fim pek de kolay bir i\u015f de\u011fildir ve Ralph Waldo Emerson\u2019\u0131n dedi\u011fi gibi \u201cAnla\u015f\u0131lmak bir l\u00fckst\u00fcr\u201d. Nas\u0131l konu\u015ftu\u011fumuz, meseleler \u00fczerinde nas\u0131l tart\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ve gruplara nas\u0131l kat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ki\u015finin \u201ck\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc\u201d ile ilgilidir. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman, meselelere farkl\u0131 yakla\u015f\u0131mlara ve kiminle […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"_s2mail":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[50,80],"tags":[],"views":2737,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/115"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=115"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/115\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=115"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=115"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=115"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}