{"id":131,"date":"2007-05-25T23:52:37","date_gmt":"2007-05-25T23:52:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/2007\/05\/25\/basarili-bir-is-gorusmesi-icin-ipuclari-goz-temasi\/"},"modified":"2007-05-25T23:52:37","modified_gmt":"2007-05-25T23:52:37","slug":"basarili-bir-is-gorusmesi-icin-ipuclari-goz-temasi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/2007\/05\/25\/basarili-bir-is-gorusmesi-icin-ipuclari-goz-temasi\/","title":{"rendered":"Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 Bir \u0130\u015f G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesi \u0130\u00e7in \u0130pu\u00e7lar\u0131: G\u00f6z Temas\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size:10pt;color:#33333;font-family:Tahoma;\">Art\u0131k herkes biliyor: i\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmelerinde g\u00f6z temas\u0131 \u00f6nemli.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size:10pt;color:#33333;font-family:Tahoma;\">Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiyle ileti\u015fim kurarken olu\u015fturdu\u011funuz <a href=\"http:\/\/www.maksimum.com\/kadin\/haber\/49\/70685.php\"> <span style=\"font-size:10pt;color:blue;font-family:Tahoma;\">g\u00f6z temas\u0131,<\/a> <\/span> <span style=\"font-size:10pt;color:#33333;font-family:Tahoma;\">kendinize olan g\u00fcveninizin ve do\u011frulu\u011funuzun bir sembol\u00fc. Ancak l\u00fctfen vur deyince \u00f6ld\u00fcrenlerden olmay\u0131n! G\u00f6z temas\u0131 elbette gerekli ama g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc k\u0131rpmadan yada bir saniye bile g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiden ay\u0131rmadan konu\u015fuyorsan\u0131z, kendinizi ger\u00e7eklikten ve do\u011fall\u0131ktan uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yorsunuz demektir.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size:10pt;color:#33333;font-family:Tahoma;\">B\u00f6yle bir durum, sizi i\u015fe alacak ki\u015fiyi rahats\u0131z edecektir. Normalde insanlar konu\u015furken, arada bir sa\u011fa veya sola bak\u0131yor olurlar. G\u00f6z temas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011frendiniz diye do\u011fall\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan kaybetmeyin. Konu\u015furken, her 5 yada 10 saniyede bir g\u00f6zleri farkl\u0131 noktalara \u00e7evirmek do\u011fal oland\u0131r. E\u011fer <a href=\"http\/www.egitim.com\/universiteliler\/0551\/0551.2\/0551.2.mulakatteknikleri.p01.asp\"> <span style=\"font-size:10pt;color:blue;font-family:Tahoma;\">i\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmelerinde<\/a><\/span><span style=\"font-size:10pt;color:#33333;font-family:Tahoma;\"> vucut dilinizi <a href=\"http:\/\/www.kent.ac.uk\/careers\/interviews\/nvc.htm\"> <span style=\"font-size:10pt;color:blue;font-family:Tahoma;\">nas\u0131l kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bilmiyorsan\u0131z<\/a> <\/span>, <span style=\"font-size:10pt;color:#33333;font-family:Tahoma;\">bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131zla m\u00fclakat egzersizi yapabilirsiniz.  Ufak bir video kameras\u0131yla yada cep telefonuyla kendinizi arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131zla yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z m\u00fclakat s\u0131ras\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcleyin ve hareketlerinizi izleyin. Baz\u0131 ki\u015filer sadece dinlerken g\u00f6z temas\u0131nda bulunurken, konu\u015fma s\u0131ras\u0131nda g\u00f6z temas\u0131n\u0131 kullanamayabilmektedir. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiyi dinlerken g\u00f6z temas\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n daha kuvvetli olmas\u0131, iyi bir dinleyici oldu\u011funuza i\u015farettir.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size:10pt;color:#33333;font-family:Tahoma;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Eye_contact\"><span style=\"font-size:10pt;color:blue;font-family:Tahoma;\">G\u00f6z temas\u0131 <\/a> <\/span><span style=\"font-size:10pt;color:#33333;font-family:Tahoma;\">do\u011fru kullan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda size ba\u015far\u0131 getirece\u011fi gibi, yanl\u0131\u015f kullan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiyle iyi bir ileti\u015fim kurman\u0131za engel te\u015fkil edecektir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Art\u0131k herkes biliyor: i\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmelerinde g\u00f6z temas\u0131 \u00f6nemli. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiyle ileti\u015fim kurarken olu\u015fturdu\u011funuz g\u00f6z temas\u0131, kendinize olan g\u00fcveninizin ve do\u011frulu\u011funuzun bir sembol\u00fc. Ancak l\u00fctfen vur deyince \u00f6ld\u00fcrenlerden olmay\u0131n! G\u00f6z temas\u0131 elbette gerekli ama g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc k\u0131rpmadan yada bir saniye bile g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiden ay\u0131rmadan konu\u015fuyorsan\u0131z, kendinizi ger\u00e7eklikten ve do\u011fall\u0131ktan uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yorsunuz demektir. B\u00f6yle bir durum, sizi i\u015fe alacak [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"_s2mail":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[50,52,53,57,69],"tags":[],"views":4009,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/131"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=131"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/131\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=131"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=131"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=131"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}