{"id":347,"date":"2008-09-18T12:09:07","date_gmt":"2008-09-18T09:09:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/2008\/09\/18\/aradigimizi-bulana-kadar-mutsuz-muyuz\/"},"modified":"2008-09-18T12:09:07","modified_gmt":"2008-09-18T09:09:07","slug":"aradigimizi-bulana-kadar-mutsuz-muyuz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/2008\/09\/18\/aradigimizi-bulana-kadar-mutsuz-muyuz\/","title":{"rendered":"Arad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 Bulana Kadar Mutsuz muyuz?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--StartFragment--><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">Kariyer ko\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7o<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">u hala \u201changi alanda ba<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">ar\u0131l\u0131 oldu<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">unuzu\u201d bulman\u0131n ve \u201ckendinizi tan\u0131d\u0131ktan sonra\u201d yeni bir aray\u0131<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">a ge\u00e7menizin en do<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">ru y\u00f6ntem oldu<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">u konusunda \u0131srarc\u0131. Oysa, University of California, Riverside taraf\u0131ndan yap\u0131lan ara<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">t\u0131rmalar, kariyer ko\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n bu yakla<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n eski nesil oldu<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">u ve insan\u0131n kendini tan\u0131d\u0131ktan sonra harekete ge\u00e7mesinin ak\u0131ll\u0131 bir y\u00f6ntem olmad\u0131<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6steriyor.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">Hayat de<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">i<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">iyor. Bizlerde de<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">i<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">en d\u00fcnya ile birlikte de<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">i<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">iyoruz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">Insan\u0131n kendini tan\u0131mas\u0131 uzun y\u0131llar al\u0131yor. \u00d6yle ki, tam kendimizi anlad\u0131<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">\u00fcnd\u00fc<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">\u00fcm\u00fczde, kendimizle ilgili farkl\u0131 <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">eyler ke<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">fediyor oluyoruz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">Asl\u0131nda ke<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">if hi\u00e7 bitmiyor\u2026 \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat s\u00fcrekli bir aray\u0131<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">Ne istedi<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">imizi bulman\u0131n en iyi yolu farkl\u0131 i<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">ler denemek. Kendimizi tan\u0131d\u0131ktan sonra bir i<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\"> se\u00e7meye \u00e7al\u0131<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">mak hem vakit kayb\u0131 hem de hangi i<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">i daha \u00e7ok sevdi<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">inizi zorla<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">t\u0131ran bir teknik. Aray\u0131<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\"> i\u00e7inde olmak hayat\u0131n kendisi.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\"><strong>Ne arad\u0131<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\"><strong>\u011f<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\"><strong>\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bulman\u0131n en iyi yoluysa \u201cdenemek\u201d. <\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">Deneme s\u00fcreci her zaman m\u00fckemmel de<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">ildir. Bazen nefret etti<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">iniz i<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">lerde ve i<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\"> yerlerinde \u00e7al\u0131<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">\u0131yor olabilirsiniz. B\u00f6ylece hangi i<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\"> ve ortamlardan ho<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">lanmad\u0131<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">renirsiniz. Bazen sevdi<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">iniz i<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">leri yapar ama belli bir s\u00fcre sonra s\u0131k\u0131labilir, arad\u0131<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n bu olmad\u0131<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">\u00fcnebilirsiniz. Bu deneyimleriniz yanl\u0131<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\"> yolda oldu<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">unu zu g\u00f6stermez. Deneyimleriniz, hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 verimli k\u0131lar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">Y\u00fckseli<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\"> hep yukar\u0131 e<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">imli de<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">ildir. D\u00fcnyada hi\u00e7 bir ekonomi s\u00fcrekli y\u00fckselen bir e<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">ilim g\u00f6stermez. Her y\u00fckseli<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">in bir yava<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">lay\u0131<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">\u0131 olur. Her \u00fcr\u00fcn e<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u011f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">risinin bir \u00e7\u0131k\u0131<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">\u0131 birde ini<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">\u015f<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\">i vard\u0131r. Deneyimlerimizde b\u00f6yledir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\"><strong>Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla, kendinizi tan\u0131man\u0131z, hangi i<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\"><strong>\u015f<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\"><strong>i daha \u00e7ok sevdi<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\"><strong>\u011f<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\"><strong>inizi anlayabilmeniz i\u00e7in beklemektense harekete ge\u00e7in.<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Tahoma;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><!--EndFragment--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kariyer ko\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu hala \u201changi alanda ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011funuzu\u201d bulman\u0131n ve \u201ckendinizi tan\u0131d\u0131ktan sonra\u201d yeni bir aray\u0131\u015fa ge\u00e7menizin en do\u011fru y\u00f6ntem oldu\u011fu konusunda \u0131srarc\u0131. Oysa, University of California, Riverside taraf\u0131ndan yap\u0131lan ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar, kariyer ko\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n bu yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n eski nesil oldu\u011fu ve insan\u0131n kendini tan\u0131d\u0131ktan sonra harekete ge\u00e7mesinin ak\u0131ll\u0131 bir y\u00f6ntem olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6steriyor. Hayat de\u011fi\u015fiyor. Bizlerde de\u011fi\u015fen d\u00fcnya [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"_s2mail":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[43,45,69,80],"tags":[],"views":7723,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/347"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=347"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/347\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=347"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=347"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=347"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}