{"id":3482,"date":"2011-10-16T11:56:09","date_gmt":"2011-10-16T08:56:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/?p=3482"},"modified":"2011-10-16T11:56:09","modified_gmt":"2011-10-16T08:56:09","slug":"girisimci-ruh-cesaret-sever","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/2011\/10\/16\/girisimci-ruh-cesaret-sever\/","title":{"rendered":"Giri\u015fimci Ruh Cesaret Sever"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #90081e;\"><em>\u201cEvet, biliyorum, arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n art\u0131k d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131\u015f gibi davranmaya ba\u015flad\u0131klar\u0131na inan\u0131yorsunuz. Bakkal\u0131n\u0131z, \u00e7\u00f6p\u00e7\u00fcn\u00fcz, rahibiniz, bald\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z ve hatta k\u00f6pe\u011finiz bile kilo ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, etraf\u0131n\u0131za olan eski ilginizi kaybetti\u011finizi, akl\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor. \u00dcst\u00fcne \u00fcstl\u00fck etraf\u0131n\u0131zdakilerin zamanlar\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011funu parampar\u00e7a oldu\u011funuzu, i\u015finizi k\u00f6t\u00fc yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, kendi kendinize zarar verdi\u011finizi s\u00f6ylemekle ge\u00e7irdiklerine inan\u0131yorsunuz. Ama emin olun hi\u00e7 kimse asl\u0131nda sizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcyor. Onlar sadece kendilerini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor; t\u0131pk\u0131 sizin gibi.\u201d<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<!--more-->Bu c\u00fcmleler \u201cRules for Aging\u201d kitab\u0131n\u0131n yazar\u0131 Roger Rosenblatt\u2019a ait. Bu sat\u0131rlara, \u201csahne \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 etkisini\u201d okurken rastlad\u0131m. Sahne \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 etkisi, di\u011fer insanlar\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcze ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131za ger\u00e7ekte oldu\u011fundan daha fazla \u00f6nem verdiklerine inanma e\u011filimidir. Asl\u0131nda di\u011fer insanlar kendileriyle bizimle ilgilendiklerinden daha fazla ilgilenirler ama biz h\u00e2l\u00e2 bir partide s\u00f6ylediklerimiz hakk\u0131nda ya da bir toplant\u0131da takt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kravat\u0131n do\u011fru se\u00e7im olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 konusunda tak\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131y\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Siz de sahne \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 etkisinden muzdaripseniz size iyi bir haberim var. Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczden \u00e7ok daha az insan\u0131n gaflar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n fark\u0131na vard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, fark\u0131na varan biri varsa bile onlar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczden \u00e7ok daha az ve \u00e7ok daha yumu\u015fak yarg\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ortaya koyuyor.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3485\" title=\"mindofanentrepreneur\" src=\"http:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/mindofanentrepreneur.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"236\" \/><\/a>E\u011fer yeni bir i\u015f kurmay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z bunu bilmek sizi rahatlatabilir. \u00c7o\u011fumuz giri\u015fimcilik hayallerimizin pe\u015finden gitmekten korkar\u0131z. Bunun en \u00f6nemli nedeni becerilerimizin yetersiz oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemiz de\u011fil, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olursak di\u011ferlerinin hakk\u0131m\u0131zda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcneceklerinden endi\u015fe duymam\u0131zd\u0131r. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n bizimle ilgili d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini o kadar \u00e7ok \u00f6nemsiyoruz ki, endi\u015femiz hareketlerimizi engelleyen bir korku haline geliyor.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>Bir i\u015fi yapmak i\u00e7in asl\u0131nda sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00e7ok daha fazla olana\u011fa sahip olsak da bazen kendimizi geri \u00e7ekeriz, s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 ge\u00e7meden kenarda dururuz \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc harekete ge\u00e7mek i\u00e7in cesaretimiz yoktur. Giri\u015fimcilerin ruhunda bulunan ve onlar\u0131 harekete ge\u00e7iren en \u00f6nemli \u00f6zellik i\u015fte budur: cesaret.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Cesaret, hedeflerimizin pe\u015finden gitmemizi sa\u011flayan yarat\u0131c\u0131 bir g\u00fc\u00e7t\u00fcr. Cesaret, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimizi eyleme d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmemizi ve hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 geli\u015ftirmemizi sa\u011flar. Bir i\u015fi yapmak i\u00e7in asl\u0131nda sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00e7ok daha fazla olana\u011fa sahip olsak da bazen kendimizi geri \u00e7ekeriz, s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 ge\u00e7meden kenarda dururuz \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc harekete ge\u00e7mek i\u00e7in cesaretimiz yoktur.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Harekete ge\u00e7meden nereye gidebilece\u011finizi bilemezsiniz. \u00d6rne\u011fin H\u00fcsn\u00fc \u00d6zye\u011fin\u2019i d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. Bankac\u0131l\u0131k sekt\u00f6r\u00fcnden bir giri\u015fimci\u2026 Giri\u015fimi sayesinde servet sahibi olan milyarder bir T\u00fcrk\u2026 \u00d6zye\u011fin, Finansbank\u2019\u0131 kurmadan \u00f6nce bir ba\u015fka bankada \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yordu. G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir konuma ve ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 bir kariyere sahipti ama 1987\u2019de i\u015finden ayr\u0131ld\u0131. \u00d6zye\u011fin, Finansbank\u2019\u0131 T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin en b\u00fcy\u00fck bankalar\u0131 aras\u0131na soktu ve 2006\u2019da bankan\u0131n %46\u2019l\u0131k hissesini 2,76 milyar dolara National Bank of Greece\u2019e satt\u0131. 2008\u2019de de %9\u2019unu 700 milyon dolara satt\u0131. \u015eimdi ba\u015fka sekt\u00f6rlere el att\u0131. Rusya\u2019da Gap ve Banana Republic zincirini geni\u015fletiyor. \u00d6zye\u011fin \u00dcniversitesi\u2019nin de kurucusu.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Giri\u015fimcilik hayat\u0131na girecekseniz \u00d6zye\u011fin gibi bir \u00f6rne\u011fe bak\u0131p, \u201cBa\u015far\u0131l\u0131 bir milyarderseniz bir \u015feylere cesaret etmek kolayd\u0131r tabii. Ben de onun yerinde olsayd\u0131m olduk\u00e7a cesur davranabilirdim\u201d diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilirsiniz. Ancak \u015funu unutmay\u0131n ki \u00d6zye\u011fin giri\u015fimini yaparken milyarder olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmiyordu. \u0130\u015flerin ne y\u00f6ne gidece\u011fini de bilmiyordu. Sadece kendisine g\u00fcveniyordu ve bir giri\u015fimci olarak \u00fccretli \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan \u00e7ok daha iyi \u015feyler elde edebilece\u011fini biliyordu. B\u00f6ylece cesaretini toplad\u0131 ve teti\u011fe bast\u0131. Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k korkusu onu durdursayd\u0131 hi\u00e7bir zaman Finansbank\u2019\u0131 kuramayacak ve topluma olan katk\u0131s\u0131 da \u015fu an oldu\u011fundan daha s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 kalacakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>Korkular\u0131m\u0131z hayallerimizin \u00e7ok uzaklarda oldu\u011funu zannetmemize yol a\u00e7ar ve korkular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 biraz bast\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda ya da onlardan tamamen kurtuldu\u011fumuzda cesaret ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar. \u0130\u015fte bu cesaretle daha \u00f6nce m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmedi\u011fimiz \u015feyleri yapabiliriz. Giri\u015fimciler de korku hisseder elbette ama bu korkuyu daha az cayd\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 bir hale getirmek i\u00e7in \u00e7e\u015fitli teknikler uygularlar. Bu tekniklerden biri korkuyu kendinizin yaratm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu ve sahne \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 etkisi gibi nedenlerle olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011finden 10 kat daha b\u00fcy\u00fck hal ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlamakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cEvet, biliyorum, arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n art\u0131k d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131\u015f gibi davranmaya ba\u015flad\u0131klar\u0131na inan\u0131yorsunuz. Bakkal\u0131n\u0131z, \u00e7\u00f6p\u00e7\u00fcn\u00fcz, rahibiniz, bald\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z ve hatta k\u00f6pe\u011finiz bile kilo ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, etraf\u0131n\u0131za olan eski ilginizi kaybetti\u011finizi, akl\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor. \u00dcst\u00fcne \u00fcstl\u00fck etraf\u0131n\u0131zdakilerin zamanlar\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011funu parampar\u00e7a oldu\u011funuzu, i\u015finizi k\u00f6t\u00fc yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, kendi kendinize zarar verdi\u011finizi s\u00f6ylemekle ge\u00e7irdiklerine inan\u0131yorsunuz. Ama emin olun hi\u00e7 kimse asl\u0131nda sizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcyor. Onlar sadece [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"_s2mail":"yes","footnotes":""},"categories":[47],"tags":[],"views":7374,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3482"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3482"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3482\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3482"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3482"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3482"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}