{"id":386,"date":"2009-04-20T00:05:06","date_gmt":"2009-04-19T21:05:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/20\/algilarini-herseyin-ustunde-tutanlara\/"},"modified":"2009-04-20T00:05:06","modified_gmt":"2009-04-19T21:05:06","slug":"algilarini-herseyin-ustunde-tutanlara","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/20\/algilarini-herseyin-ustunde-tutanlara\/","title":{"rendered":"Alg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 Her\u015feyin \u00dcst\u00fcnde Tutanlara"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cAlg\u0131 her<\/span>\u015f<\/span>eydir. Alg\u0131 ger\u00e7ekliktir.\u201d Reklamlarda bize empoze edilen \u201cdo<\/span>\u011f<\/span>ru\u201d bu y\u00f6nde.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cAlg\u0131lar \u00f6nemlidir\u201d yerine alg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 her<\/span>\u015f<\/span>eyin \u00fczerinde tutmaya al\u0131<\/span>\u015f<\/span>t\u0131<\/span>\u011f<\/span>\u0131m\u0131zda bazen ortaya kaos \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. \u201cBen \u00f6yle alg\u0131l\u0131yorsam, \u00f6yledir. \u00d6yleyse, de<\/span>\u011f<\/span>i<\/span>\u015f<\/span>mesi gereken sensin, ben de<\/span>\u011f<\/span>il!\u201d Bu mant\u0131kla i<\/span>\u015f<\/span>in i\u00e7inden \u00e7\u0131kmak rahat oldu<\/span>\u011f<\/span>undan ve sorumlulu<\/span>\u011f<\/span>u tamamen kar<\/span>\u015f<\/span>\u0131 tarafa att\u0131<\/span>\u011f<\/span>\u0131ndan, tercih edilmesinin sebeplerinden birini de te<\/span>\u015f<\/span>kil ediyor mudur acaba?<\/span><\/p>\n

Alg\u0131lar \u00f6nemlidir. Ancak, kendimizi ve olaylar\u0131 do<\/span>\u011f<\/span>ru sorgulamadan alg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131za inanmay\u0131 ve ona g\u00f6re hareket tarz\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 se\u00e7meyi \u00f6<\/span>\u011f<\/span>rendiysek, geli<\/span>\u015f<\/span>menin de k\u0131s\u0131tl\u0131 d\u00fczeyde olaca<\/span>\u011f<\/span>\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyebilir miyiz?<\/span><\/p>\n

Emre Konuk alg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 nas\u0131l sorgulayabilece<\/span>\u011f<\/span>imiz konusunda \u00e7ok g\u00fczel bir a\u00e7\u0131klama yapm\u0131<\/span>\u015f<\/span>.<\/span><\/a><\/span> Konuk, nedensel mant\u0131k ile ilgili 3 garip durumdan bahsediyor. Bunlardan ilki, insanlar\u0131n nedenden sonuca gitme e<\/span><\/span>\u011f<\/span>ilimi. Di<\/span>\u011f<\/span>er ikisi ise, daha \u00e7ok olay\u0131n duygusal boyutundan kaynaklanan \u00e7arp\u0131tmalar oldu<\/span>\u011f<\/span>unu s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130\u015f<\/span> ortamlar\u0131nda tak\u0131m oyunu dedi<\/span>\u011f<\/span>iniz durum bazen ayn\u0131 b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn \u00e7al\u0131<\/span>\u015f<\/span>anlar\u0131 ile di<\/span>\u011f<\/span>er b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn \u00e7al\u0131<\/span>\u015f<\/span>anlar\u0131na kar<\/span>\u015f<\/span>\u0131 oynan\u0131r. Bir b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn tak\u0131m\u0131ndan birileri yanl\u0131<\/span>\u015f<\/span> yapsa da hatal\u0131 olsa da, objektif d\u00fc<\/span>\u015f<\/span>\u00fcnme ve davranma yerine, kar<\/span>\u015f<\/span>\u0131 tak\u0131m elemanlar\u0131\u00a0hedef al\u0131nd\u0131<\/span>\u011f<\/span>\u0131ndan, tak\u0131m ya da ki<\/span>\u015f<\/span>i \u00e7\u0131karlar\u0131 \u00f6n planda oldu<\/span>\u011f<\/span>undan, yanl\u0131<\/span>\u015f<\/span> olan\u0131 se\u00e7me ve savunma e<\/span>\u011f<\/span>ilimi artabiliyor. Konuk <\/span>\u015f<\/span>\u00f6yle bir \u00f6rnek veriyor:<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201c Bir ki<\/span>\u015f<\/span>i direkt olarak bize zarar veriyorsa, bir arkada<\/span>\u015f<\/span>\u0131m\u0131za zarar verdi<\/span>\u011f<\/span>i duruma g\u00f6re onu daha \u00e7ok sorumlu tutar\u0131z. Veya bir arkada<\/span>\u015f<\/span>\u0131m\u0131za zarar veriyorsa, bir yabanc\u0131ya zarar verdi<\/span>\u011f<\/span>i duruma g\u00f6re, o ki<\/span>\u015f<\/span>iyi daha fazla su\u00e7lar\u0131z gibi. Yani verilen zarar bize ne kadar yak\u0131nsa, bunu yapan ki<\/span>\u015f<\/span>iyi sorumlu tutma e<\/span>\u011f<\/span>ilimimiz o kadar artar. Yani sonucun duygusal \u00f6nemi, olay\u0131n nedensellik ba<\/span>\u011f<\/span>\u0131n\u0131 bizim i\u00e7in o kadar kuvvetlendirir.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Alg\u0131lar \u00f6nemlidir. Ne var ki, alg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n do<\/span>\u011f<\/span>rulu<\/span>\u011f<\/span>unu sorgulamadan hareket etmek, hem tak\u0131ma hem de kendinize zarar verir. Sorgulanmadan, y\u00fczeysel alg\u0131larla hareket etmeye g\u00fczel bir \u00f6rnek Susan Boyle ve onu de\u011ferlendiren j\u00fcri\/izleyici. Iyi seyirler…<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cAlg\u0131 her\u015feydir. Alg\u0131 ger\u00e7ekliktir.\u201d Reklamlarda bize empoze edilen \u201cdo\u011fru\u201d bu y\u00f6nde. \u201cAlg\u0131lar \u00f6nemlidir\u201d yerine alg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 her\u015feyin \u00fczerinde tutmaya al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda bazen ortaya kaos \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. \u201cBen \u00f6yle alg\u0131l\u0131yorsam, \u00f6yledir. \u00d6yleyse, de\u011fi\u015fmesi gereken sensin, ben de\u011fil!\u201d Bu mant\u0131kla i\u015fin i\u00e7inden \u00e7\u0131kmak rahat oldu\u011fundan ve sorumlulu\u011fu tamamen kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa att\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, tercih edilmesinin sebeplerinden birini de te\u015fkil ediyor mudur acaba? […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"_s2mail":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[43,44,50,69],"tags":[],"views":3404,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/386"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=386"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/386\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=386"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=386"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=386"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}