{"id":3863,"date":"2012-10-21T12:33:18","date_gmt":"2012-10-21T09:33:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/?p=3863"},"modified":"2012-10-21T12:33:18","modified_gmt":"2012-10-21T09:33:18","slug":"ozdegerinizi-yukselterek-kiskancliginizi-dizginleyin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/2012\/10\/21\/ozdegerinizi-yukselterek-kiskancliginizi-dizginleyin\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, Kendinizle Bar\u0131\u015f\u0131k Olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda Ba\u015f G\u00f6sterir"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130nsan\u0131n k\u0131skan\u00e7 oldu\u011funu kendine itiraf etmesi g\u00fc\u00e7t\u00fcr. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k pek olumlu bir duygu durumu de\u011fil; bir bak\u0131ma bencilli\u011fin en \u00fcst noktalara ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n bir g\u00f6stergesi. <a href=\"http:\/\/intentionalworkplace.com\/2011\/07\/07\/envy-jealousy-resentment-%E2%80%93-the-%E2%80%9Ccomparison%E2%80%9D-emotions-at-work\/\">Kurumsal d\u00fcnyalarda k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k<\/a> \u00fcretkenli\u011fi, yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir i\u015f ortam\u0131n\u0131 zedeleyen \u00f6nemli zehirlerden biri.<\/p>\n<p>Kurumsal hayatlarda k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k s\u0131k rastlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ama az konu\u015ftu\u011fumuz bir konu. Belli etmeden, i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e hissetti\u011fimiz, y\u00fcksek dozlara ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda etrafa zarar vermek i\u00e7in aktif hareket plan\u0131 haz\u0131rlatt\u0131ran bir duygu k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k. Konuya dalmadan \u00f6nce George Carlin&#8217;in ozde\u011fer ile ilgili konu\u015fmas\u0131na bir g\u00f6z at\u0131p, biraz g\u00fclelim.<br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"550\" height=\"250\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ALf2HZsGtGQ\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><br \/>\n<strong>Kimleri daha \u00e7ok k\u0131skan\u0131r\u0131z?<\/strong><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Genellikle k\u0131skand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ki\u015filer bize <strong>ya\u015fca yak\u0131n, e\u011fitim ve ya\u015fam tarz\u0131nda benzerlik g\u00f6sterenler<\/strong> olur. <a href=\"http:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/2009\/08\/04\/kariyer-endisesiyle-dolu-yasamlar\/\">Alain de Botton<\/a> \u201cMargaret Thatcher\u2019\u0131 kimse pek k\u0131skanmaz, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc zengin olsa da, her istedi\u011fini elde edebilse de kimse kendiyle aras\u0131nda bir ba\u011f kuramaz\u201d der.\u00a0 Bunun yan\u0131s\u0131ra, ayn\u0131 kurum i\u00e7erisinde kendinize kariyer a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan yak\u0131n hissetti\u011finiz ama sizde olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131na inand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00f6zellikleri bu ki\u015finin ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131na inand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z biri varsa(bilin\u00e7li yada bilin\u00e7alt\u0131), o ki\u015fiye kar\u015f\u0131 k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k hissetmeniz m\u00fcmk\u00fcn. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, yani insanlar\u0131n kendi istedikleri \u015feyleri ba\u015fkalar\u0131nda g\u00f6rd\u00fcklerinde hissettikleri s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131, evrensel bir duygu.<\/p>\n<p>Capital dergisinin yenibiris.com \u00fczerinden 2365 ki\u015fiyle yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 anket de i\u015f yerinde <a href=\"http:\/\/www.capital.com.tr\/maliyeti-sanilandan-cok-daha-buyuk-haberler\/24305.aspx\">k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n resmini ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131yor<\/a>: \u201cAnkete kat\u0131lanlar\u0131n y\u00fczde 91\u2019i i\u015f yerinde k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor. Her ne kadar k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, \u00e7ok fazla \u00f6n\u00fc al\u0131nabilen bir duygu olmasa da baz\u0131 ortamlar k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n olu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor\u201d diyor.<\/p>\n<p>Ne giydi\u011finiz, ne kadar sosyal oldu\u011funuz, elde etti\u011finiz ba\u015far\u0131lar k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k konusu olabiliyor. Bunun alt\u0131nda da g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olmaya ve g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc hissetmeye olan iste\u011fin \u00e7ok kuvvetli olmas\u0131 yat\u0131yor. Bir di\u011fer de\u011fi\u015fle, ki\u015finin kendi hakk\u0131ndaki alg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n kuvvetli olmamas\u0131na da i\u015faret ediyor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6nlemek i\u00e7in neler yap\u0131labilir?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kurumlar\u0131n adil y\u00f6netim \u00e7abas\u0131 k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n bir nebze azalmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir ama bu sistem kurmakla ilgili bir durum. Yani, gerekli olmakla birlikte <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2002\/10\/08\/health\/jealous-maybe-it-s-genetic-maybe-not.html?pagewanted=all&amp;src=pm\">yetersiz bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Psikolojik ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n <a href=\"http:\/\/www.apa.org\/monitor\/feb05\/jealousy.aspx\">sald\u0131rganl\u0131k ve \u00f6zde\u011fer eksikli\u011finden<\/a> kaynakland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. Kendini yanl\u0131z hissedenler ve \u00f6zde\u011ferleri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck olanlar, i\u015f arkada\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n tehditkar oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme e\u011filiminde olduklar\u0131ndan, bu alg\u0131 onlar\u0131n etraflar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 agresif\/sald\u0131rgan davranmalar\u0131na neden oluyor. Bu ara\u015ft\u0131rmalarn\u0131n temelinde ki\u015finin kendini yeteri kadar de\u011ferli g\u00f6rmemesinin k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k duygusunu tetikledi\u011fine i\u015faret ediyor. Kendini de\u011ferli hissetmeyenlerin arkada\u015fl\u0131k kurmas\u0131 da zor olabiliyor, kurulan dostluklarda k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k devreye girdi\u011finde y\u0131k\u0131l\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>K\u0131sacas\u0131, kurum i\u00e7inde k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131 azaltman\u0131n en iyi yolu, ki\u015fileri kendileri ve yapt\u0131klar\u0131 i\u015flerde de\u011ferli hissetmesini sa\u011flayacak kurum davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ve k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc yayg\u0131nla\u015fmakla olur.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130nsan\u0131n k\u0131skan\u00e7 oldu\u011funu kendine itiraf etmesi g\u00fc\u00e7t\u00fcr. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k pek olumlu bir duygu durumu de\u011fil; bir bak\u0131ma bencilli\u011fin en \u00fcst noktalara ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n bir g\u00f6stergesi. Kurumsal d\u00fcnyalarda k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k \u00fcretkenli\u011fi, yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir i\u015f ortam\u0131n\u0131 zedeleyen \u00f6nemli zehirlerden biri. Kurumsal hayatlarda k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k s\u0131k rastlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ama az konu\u015ftu\u011fumuz bir konu. Belli etmeden, i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e hissetti\u011fimiz, y\u00fcksek dozlara ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"_s2mail":"yes","footnotes":""},"categories":[69],"tags":[],"views":7984,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3863"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3863"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3863\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3863"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3863"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3863"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}