{"id":543,"date":"2010-01-24T01:28:31","date_gmt":"2010-01-23T22:28:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/?p=543"},"modified":"2010-01-24T01:28:31","modified_gmt":"2010-01-23T22:28:31","slug":"neden-ben","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/2010\/01\/24\/neden-ben\/","title":{"rendered":"Neden Ben?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Zor d\u00f6nemlerden ge\u00e7erken sorar m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z &#8220;Neden Ben?&#8221; diye&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015f arama s\u00fcreciniz uzad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, umutlar k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, bu gidi\u015fle kariyerim ne olacak diye sorguland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, birliktelikler yok oldu\u011funda, &#8220;Neden Ben?&#8221; dermisiniz ara ara?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Diyorsan\u0131z, benim cevab\u0131m, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ya\u015fanmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi i\u00e7indir asl\u0131nda&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Siz bakmay\u0131n ortal\u0131kta dola\u015fan &#8220;mutluluk&#8221; sa\u00e7an ve her daim mutlu mesutmu\u015f gibi duranlara&#8230; Facebook&#8217;da gidilen yerlerin g\u00fclen foto\u011fraflar\u0131, twitter&#8217;da yenen pastalar\u0131n duyrular\u0131, web&#8217;de huzur sa\u00e7an iyilik perilerinin laflar\u0131 aldatmas\u0131n sizleri. Bunlara bak\u0131p da hayatlar hep b\u00f6yle ge\u00e7iyor sanmay\u0131n. Hayatta hep pozitif duygular ya\u015fanmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi gibi bir yan\u0131lg\u0131ya kap\u0131l\u0131yorsan\u0131z, bilin ki bu istek insan do\u011fas\u0131yla uyumlu de\u011fil. Uyumlu olan, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, hissettiklerinizi kabul etmek ve ayn\u0131 zamanda onlarla nas\u0131l ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131z gerekti\u011fi konusuna el atmak.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Foto\u011fraflar\u0131m\u0131zda mutlu anlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 karelere koyar\u0131z. Koyar\u0131z ki, bir ka\u00e7 hafta sonra oldu ki \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fck ve s\u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fck, bak\u0131p mutlu oldu\u011fumuz anlar\u0131 hat\u0131rlayarak bilincimizi kontrolde tutal\u0131m. <\/strong>A\u011flarken, k\u0131zg\u0131nken, kendinden ge\u00e7mi\u015fken foto\u011fraflar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ne \u00e7ekmek ne de herkesin g\u00f6rece\u011fi \u015fekilde sosyal medya ortamlar\u0131na atmay\u0131 tercih etmiyoruz gibi duruyor. Ben pek denk gelmiyorum, ya siz? <strong>Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla, kendi durumunuzla di\u011ferlerinin durumunu kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma gibi bir ruh haline girerseniz, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rman\u0131n t\u00fcm ger\u00e7e\u011fi yans\u0131tmama ihtimali oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlay\u0131n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Hayat hikayelerimizi bile ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olduktan sonra yeniden yaz\u0131yoruz. Sonradan d\u00f6n\u00fcp olaya bakan g\u00f6zlerle anlat\u0131r\u0131z olanlar\u0131. I\u00e7inden ge\u00e7ilen zorlu zamanlar\u0131 en hafif haliyle hat\u0131rlamay\u0131 tercih eder beynimiz&#8230;ki b\u00f6ylece tekrardan kendimizi toparlayabilelim.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Neden Ben?&#8221; diye soruyorsan\u0131z, sorunuzu de\u011fi\u015ftirerek sorman\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6neririm. 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