{"id":5459,"date":"2018-10-05T20:40:05","date_gmt":"2018-10-05T17:40:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/?p=5459"},"modified":"2018-10-05T21:11:49","modified_gmt":"2018-10-05T18:11:49","slug":"basarili-insani-asagi-cekmenin-psikolojisi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/2018\/10\/05\/basarili-insani-asagi-cekmenin-psikolojisi\/","title":{"rendered":"Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 \u0130nsan\u0131 A\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00c7ekmenin Psikolojisi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-5461\" src=\"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/tulip-300x96.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"575\" height=\"184\" \/>Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015fte yetenekli oldu\u011funa inanan, ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olan, ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmak i\u00e7in gereken \u00f6zveriyi veren, bile\u011finin g\u00fcc\u00fcyle bir yere gelmi\u015f ve ortalaman\u0131n \u00fczerinde bir insansan\u0131z, ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011funuz i\u00e7in cezaland\u0131r\u0131l\u0131yor olabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Yetenekli, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fkan, i\u015fi di\u011ferlerinden iyi yapan insanlar\u0131n a\u015fa\u011f\u0131ya \u00e7ekilmesinin olduk\u00e7a farkl\u0131 sebepleri olabilir ama bunun psikolojik a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131n\u0131 \u015fu \u015fekilde anlatabiliriz.<\/p>\n<p>E\u011fer kariyerinde pek de ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmayan, \u00f6zellikle de kendi se\u00e7imleri dolay\u0131s\u0131yla kariyer ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck bir ki\u015finin yan\u0131nda ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 birinin durmas\u0131, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olan ki\u015finin kendi hakk\u0131nda k\u00f6t\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesine neden olur.<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olan, ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olan\u0131n yan\u0131nda oldu\u011funda onu yok etmek iste\u011fi ve ihtiyac\u0131 ba\u015f g\u00f6sterir. Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z ki\u015finin ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olan\u0131n yan\u0131nda olmas\u0131 kendisini otomatik olarak kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakiyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rmas\u0131na yol a\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n<p>Bu kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma sonucu ki\u015fi kendini yarg\u0131lamaya ba\u015flar. Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile y\u00fczle\u015fmek ac\u0131 verdi\u011fi i\u00e7in bu ac\u0131dan kurtulabilmesinin en kolay yolu, ona ac\u0131 veren \u015feyi ortadan kald\u0131rmaktad\u0131r. B\u00f6ylece olmak istedi\u011fi ideali s\u00fcrekli g\u00f6rmek zorunda kalmaz.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ok sevdi\u011fim bir saz grubunun solisti, \u00e7ok ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in, sesinin grubun \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7ti\u011fi sebebiyle i\u015finden oldu. Grubun sat\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fc\u015fmesi, ayn\u0131 performans\u0131 yeniden yakalayamam\u0131\u015f olmalar\u0131 \u00f6nemsenmedi.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z Noktadan Ba\u015far\u0131ya Yeniden Nas\u0131l Ula\u015f\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131ya \u00e7ekmeye ba\u015flad\u0131ysan\u0131z hayata da k\u0131zg\u0131n olabilirsiniz. \u00dclkede bir ara ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k hikayeleri anlat\u0131lmaya ba\u015fland\u0131 ilham vermesi i\u00e7in ancak bu hikayelerin \u00e7o\u011funun ki\u015filerin sadece anlatmak istedikleri ve yeniden ba\u015far\u0131 elde ettikten sonra yazd\u0131klar\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k hikayeleridir. Size ilham verebilir ama pek de ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i olmayabilir.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7 kendinize &#8220;sorular sormaktan&#8221; ge\u00e7iyor. Hikaye anlatmay\u0131n, kendinize sorular sorun!<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Sizi zay\u0131flatacak konu\u015fmalar yapmaktan vazge\u00e7in.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Kendinize yalan s\u00f6ylemekten vazge\u00e7in.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Tam olarak nerelerde hata yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 netle\u015ftirene kadar u\u011fra\u015f\u0131n. Her g\u00fcn kendinize sordu\u011funuz sorular\u0131 ve cevaplar\u0131 yaz\u0131n.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Kim olabilece\u011finizi, kim oldu\u011funuza tercih edin. Nas\u0131l bir insan olmak istedi\u011finizi yaz\u0131n.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Kendinize uygun ufuklar hedefleyin. Sorumluluk al\u0131n.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Sorumluluk, hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n bir anlam\u0131 oldu\u011fu zaman g\u00fc\u00e7lenir ve motivasyon sa\u011flar.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Hayat\u0131n\u0131zda her sabah ayn\u0131 saatte kalkman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flayacak bir sebep bulun.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">G\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc planlay\u0131n.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Sadece kendi \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in de\u011fil etraf\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015filerin iyi halleri i\u00e7in de \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Bu sizi iyi insan yapar.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">S\u00fcrekli kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z rekabetin i\u00e7indeyseniz, kendi potansiyelinizin alt\u0131nda rekabet ediyor olabilirsiniz.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Nereden Beslenebilirim?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>A\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki kitaplar\u0131 okuman\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6neririm.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Working-Identity-Unconventional-Strategies-Reinventing\/dp\/1591394139\">Working Identity, Hermina Ibarra<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/1462524923\/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i1\">Opening Up By Writing It Down, James PennyBaker<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/seslenenkitap.com\/Urun\/9\/beyaz-yakali-girisimci\">Giri\u015fimci Hayata Yumu\u015fak Ge\u00e7i\u015f, Fatmanur Erdogan<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015fte yetenekli oldu\u011funa inanan, ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olan, ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmak i\u00e7in gereken \u00f6zveriyi veren, bile\u011finin g\u00fcc\u00fcyle bir yere gelmi\u015f ve ortalaman\u0131n \u00fczerinde bir insansan\u0131z, ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011funuz i\u00e7in cezaland\u0131r\u0131l\u0131yor olabilirsiniz. Yetenekli, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fkan, i\u015fi di\u011ferlerinden iyi yapan insanlar\u0131n a\u015fa\u011f\u0131ya \u00e7ekilmesinin olduk\u00e7a farkl\u0131 sebepleri olabilir ama bunun psikolojik a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131n\u0131 \u015fu \u015fekilde anlatabiliriz. E\u011fer kariyerinde pek de ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmayan, \u00f6zellikle [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"_s2mail":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[57,68],"tags":[231,98,101,108,176,228,168,230,227,226,229,136],"views":4288,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5459"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5459"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5459\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5470,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5459\/revisions\/5470"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5459"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5459"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5459"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}