Instagram’da bir post vard\u0131. Hayat\u0131n s\u0131rlarla dolu oldu\u011funa dair. Herkesin hayat\u0131n\u0131n d\u0131\u015fa vurmak istemedi\u011fi s\u0131rlar\u0131 oldu\u011funa dair… Ne kadar do\u011fru. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ben o postu kendi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fcnyam ve bilgim \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde ve elbette i\u00e7inden ge\u00e7ti\u011fim d\u00f6nemin bana ya\u015fatt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n perspektifinden okudum. T\u0131pk\u0131 o postu yazan ki\u015fi gibi…\u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc o da yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kendi i\u00e7inden ge\u00e7ti\u011fi tecr\u00fcbeler ve hayat d\u00f6ng\u00fcs\u00fc i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fu pozisyonda durarak yazm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Laf d\u00f6nd\u00fc dola\u015ft\u0131, nedense an\u0131 ya\u015famaya geldi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
An\u0131 ya\u015famaya inanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi yazar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Beni de anda ya\u015famay\u0131 savunan biri olarak ilan etti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ben de an\u0131 ya\u015famay\u0131 savunan biri de\u011fildim oysa ki. Nereden \u00e7\u0131kartm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 ki bunu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O da benim g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerime k\u0131zd\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7as\u0131. Ben de \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fcm ard\u0131ndan, \u00fc\u00e7 sat\u0131rl\u0131k sosyal medya mesajlar\u0131 ile neyi kurtar\u0131yoruz ki sanki. Belli ki yazar\u0131n durdu\u011fu nokta hayat\u0131n\u0131n o d\u00f6neminde bu g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerinin g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc oldu\u011fu noktayd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
K\u0131z\u0131\u015ft\u0131k sanki ama nazik\u00e7e, kibarca. Hani eskiden insanlar silahlarla kavga ederlerdi, sonra yerini nezaketliymi\u015f gibi duran, y\u00fcz\u00fcne g\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn, arkadan b\u0131\u00e7aklad\u0131\u011f\u0131n d\u00f6nem ald\u0131 ya. Instagram d\u00f6neminde de birbirini takip etmeyi b\u0131rakmadan postlara be\u011feni atmayarak, story’lere g\u00f6z atmayarak, k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n ifadesi ba\u015flad\u0131. Bizde de o durum oldu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Epey bir zaman \u00f6nceydi bu olay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u015eimdi hayat\u0131m\u0131n farkl\u0131 bir noktas\u0131nday\u0131m bende. An\u0131 ya\u015famak ile ilgili d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrken buldum kendimi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Farkettim ki, hayatta her konu kontextiyle birlikte ger\u00e7eklik kazan\u0131yor bazen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O zaman an\u0131 ya\u015famay\u0131 savunmuyordum hakikaten, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc an\u0131 ya\u015faman\u0131n insan\u0131 gelece\u011fe y\u00f6neltmekten al\u0131koydu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyordum. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oysa bug\u00fcn durdu\u011fum noktada an\u0131 ya\u015famakla ilgili d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerim \u00e7ok farkl\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00d6l\u00fcm hakk\u0131nda hi\u00e7 kafa yormam\u0131\u015f biri olarak, birden hayat\u0131m\u0131n merkezine \u00f6l\u00fcm oturunca, insan\u0131n en \u00e7ok sevdikleriyle g\u00fczel an\u0131lar\u0131 toplamak i\u00e7in g\u00fczel anlar olu\u015fturmas\u0131n\u0131n ne derece anlaml\u0131 oldu\u011funu farkettim. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Farkettim ki, an\u0131 ya\u015famak, ne gelece\u011fi ne de ge\u00e7mi\u015fi yok saymak de\u011fil. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
An\u0131 ya\u015famak demek, sevdi\u011fin insanlar\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn i\u00e7ine bakabilmek demek. Bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda g\u00f6zlerindeki ne\u015feyi, kederi, korkuyu, heyecan\u0131 okuyabilmek demek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
An\u0131 ya\u015fayabilmek demek, bir sonraki dakikalar\u0131n bir \u00f6ncekinden daha k\u00f6t\u00fc olmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7aba vermek demek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
An\u0131 ya\u015fayabilmek demek, ge\u00e7mi\u015fin k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131, ac\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131, \u00f6fkelerini hal\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131na koymadan, ge\u00e7mi\u015fle y\u00fczle\u015febilmek, b\u00f6ylece hayat\u0131n\u0131n geri kalan anlardan olu\u015fan y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 ne\u015feyle ve huzurla ge\u00e7irebilmek i\u00e7in sorumluluk almak demek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131n\u0131n insanl\u0131\u011fa unutturdu\u011fu en b\u00fcy\u00fck ger\u00e7ek, yar\u0131n\u0131n sorumlulu\u011funu alabilmek i\u00e7in \u015fu an ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z nefesin k\u0131ymetini bilmek, k\u0131ymet bilmek i\u00e7in hat\u0131rlamak, hat\u0131rlamak i\u00e7in her g\u00fcn ya\u015fama \u015f\u00fckredebilece\u011fimiz bir zaman dilimi yaratmakt\u0131r belkide. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mutluluk dedi\u011fimiz \u015fey bile anlar\u0131n toplam\u0131ndan ibaret. O anlar nederece mutlu ise ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131zdan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z doyum da o derece y\u00fcksek oluyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130nsan\u0131n sadece kariyerinde ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmas\u0131 mutlu bir ya\u015fam i\u00e7in yeterli olmuyor. Her insan kariyerine bu bilin\u00e7le ba\u015flasa, hayat\u0131n\u0131 daha anlaml\u0131 ya\u015fama \u015fans\u0131n\u0131 yakalayabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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