{"id":658,"date":"2010-06-24T16:45:59","date_gmt":"2010-06-24T13:45:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/?p=658"},"modified":"2010-06-24T16:45:59","modified_gmt":"2010-06-24T13:45:59","slug":"bir-isi-sonuna-kadar-goturecek-kadar-sebatkar-olmak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/2010\/06\/24\/bir-isi-sonuna-kadar-goturecek-kadar-sebatkar-olmak\/","title":{"rendered":"Bir \u0130\u015fi Sonuna Dek G\u00f6t\u00fcrecek Kadar Sebatkar Olmak"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u015eans, i\u015f d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n sevmedi\u011fi ve tercih etmedi\u011fi bir kelime.\u00a0 Yine de ben \u015fansl\u0131y\u0131m ve <a title=\"fatmanur erdogan, sans, baras\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/2008\/12\/19\/basari-icin-gerekli-3-faktor\/\" target=\"_self\">\u015fansa inan\u0131yorum<\/a>.\u00a0 Her \u015fans\u0131 kendimin yaratmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilecek kadar hayat\u0131n ak\u0131\u015f\u0131na g\u00fcveniyorum, ak\u0131\u015fa kap\u0131lmayacak kadar da i\u015fimi sansa b\u0131rakmadan hareket etmeye devam ediyorum.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fcrk, yabanc\u0131, T\u00fcrkiye&#8217;nin ve D\u00fcnya&#8217;n\u0131n alan\u0131nda ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 i\u015f insanlar\u0131nda \u015funu dinliyor ve g\u00f6zlemliyorum: <strong>onlar \u015fansa inan\u0131yorlar ve sebat ediyorlar<\/strong>.(bir i\u015fi sonuna kadar g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcyorlar.)<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015farma azminde olanlar, genelin kolay i\u015flere ko\u015ftu\u011fu noktalarda, onlar herkesin korktu\u011fu ve tercih etmedi\u011fi i\u015flere el at\u0131yorlar.\u00a0 Sonuna kadar o i\u015fin arkas\u0131ndan ko\u015fturuyorlar.\u00a0 Engeller, zorluklar, ini\u015fli \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015fl\u0131 patikalar belki yoruluyorlar ama geri ad\u0131m atm\u0131yorlar.\u00a0 Diren\u00e7liler; diren\u00e7leri k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bir i\u00e7 motivasyon bulmay\u0131 beceriyorlar.<\/p>\n<p>Nedenini bende bilmiyordum. Ta ki, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.coachingtowardhappiness.com\/AHC\/vol2num22.htm\" target=\"_blank\">Dr. Ben Dean&#8217;in bu yaz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 okuyana kadar.<!--more--><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Sebatkar olan ki\u015filere, yapt\u0131klar\u0131 i\u015fin zor oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi\u011finizde, o i\u015fi ba\u015farmak i\u00e7in \u0131srarla \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya devam ettiklerini bulmu\u015flar. Kolay oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi\u011finizde, sebatkarlar\u00a0daha kolay vazge\u00e7ebiliyorlarm\u0131\u015f\u00a0verilen i\u015ften. Sebebi ise ilgin\u00e7: Kolay olan bir i\u015fte ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olmak y\u00fcz k\u0131zart\u0131c\u0131yken, herkesin zor kabul etti\u011fi bir i\u015fte ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olmak y\u00fcz\u00fc pek de fazla k\u0131zartm\u0131yormu\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Zor i\u015fi ba\u015farman\u0131n verdi\u011fi haz da elbette b\u00fcy\u00fck oluyor.<\/p>\n<p>Zor i\u015fleri ba\u015faranlar\u0131n i\u00e7 dinamiklerinde ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 dolay\u0131s\u0131yla tahmin edebiliyorsunuzdur; ne var ki onlar\u0131n se\u00e7imi ortalama olmaktansa, b\u00fcy\u00fck sularda dola\u015fmak oluyor.\u00a0 Her iki se\u00e7imde de ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olma ihtimalini bilmelerine ra\u011fmen, riski kendilerini zorlayacak alanlarda kullanmay\u0131 tercih ediyorlar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Janoff-Bulman &amp; Brickman diyor ki\u00a0&#8216;baz\u0131 hedeflere ula\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir, baz\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131lar\u00a0da ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r ve ikisi aras\u0131ndaki fark\u0131 g\u00f6rebilmek, i\u015fte o bilgelik gerektirmektedir.&#8217;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Barry Schwartz, The Paradox of Choice.<br \/>\n<!--copy and paste--><object width=\"334\" height=\"326\"><param name=\"movie\" value=\"http:\/\/video.ted.com\/assets\/player\/swf\/EmbedPlayer.swf\" \/><param name=\"allowFullScreen\" value=\"true\" \/><param name=\"allowScriptAccess\" value=\"always\" \/><param name=\"wmode\" value=\"transparent\" \/><param name=\"bgColor\" value=\"#ffffff\" \/><param name=\"flashvars\" value=\"vu=http:\/\/video.ted.com\/talks\/dynamic\/BarrySchwartz_2005G-medium.flv&amp;su=http:\/\/images.ted.com\/images\/ted\/tedindex\/embed-posters\/BarrySchwartz-2005G.embed_thumbnail.jpg&amp;vw=320&amp;vh=240&amp;ap=0&amp;ti=93&amp;lang=eng&amp;introDuration=15330&amp;adDuration=4000&amp;postAdDuration=830&amp;adKeys=talk=barry_schwartz_on_the_paradox_of_choice;year=2005;theme=what_makes_us_happy;theme=unconventional_explanations;theme=how_the_mind_works;theme=speaking_at_ted2009;event=TEDGlobal+2005;tag=Business;tag=Culture;tag=choice;tag=consumerism;tag=economics;tag=happiness;tag=personal+growth;tag=potential;tag=psychology;tag=shopping;&amp;preAdTag=tconf.ted\/embed;tile=1;sz=512x288;\" \/><embed type=\"application\/x-shockwave-flash\" width=\"334\" height=\"326\" src=\"http:\/\/video.ted.com\/assets\/player\/swf\/EmbedPlayer.swf\" pluginspace=\"http:\/\/www.macromedia.com\/go\/getflashplayer\" wmode=\"transparent\" bgcolor=\"#ffffff\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" allowscriptaccess=\"always\" flashvars=\"vu=http:\/\/video.ted.com\/talks\/dynamic\/BarrySchwartz_2005G-medium.flv&amp;su=http:\/\/images.ted.com\/images\/ted\/tedindex\/embed-posters\/BarrySchwartz-2005G.embed_thumbnail.jpg&amp;vw=320&amp;vh=240&amp;ap=0&amp;ti=93&amp;lang=eng&amp;introDuration=15330&amp;adDuration=4000&amp;postAdDuration=830&amp;adKeys=talk=barry_schwartz_on_the_paradox_of_choice;year=2005;theme=what_makes_us_happy;theme=unconventional_explanations;theme=how_the_mind_works;theme=speaking_at_ted2009;event=TEDGlobal+2005;tag=Business;tag=Culture;tag=choice;tag=consumerism;tag=economics;tag=happiness;tag=personal+growth;tag=potential;tag=psychology;tag=shopping;\"><\/embed><\/object><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u015eans, i\u015f d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n sevmedi\u011fi ve tercih etmedi\u011fi bir kelime.\u00a0 Yine de ben \u015fansl\u0131y\u0131m ve \u015fansa inan\u0131yorum.\u00a0 Her \u015fans\u0131 kendimin yaratmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilecek kadar hayat\u0131n ak\u0131\u015f\u0131na g\u00fcveniyorum, ak\u0131\u015fa kap\u0131lmayacak kadar da i\u015fimi sansa b\u0131rakmadan hareket etmeye devam ediyorum. 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