{"id":855,"date":"2010-11-03T15:06:58","date_gmt":"2010-11-03T12:06:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/?p=855"},"modified":"2010-11-03T15:06:58","modified_gmt":"2010-11-03T12:06:58","slug":"dogru-bildiginiz-yanlislar-asla-yalniz-yemek-yemeyin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/2010\/11\/03\/dogru-bildiginiz-yanlislar-asla-yalniz-yemek-yemeyin\/","title":{"rendered":"Do\u011fru Bildi\u011finiz Yanl\u0131\u015flar: \u201cAsla Yaln\u0131z Yemek Yemeyin\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a title=\"fatmanur erdogan kariyer yolculugu\" href=\"http:\/\/www.kariyeryolculugu.com\">Kariyeryolculugu.com.<\/a> Kariyer ve Yasam Dengesi Uzerine Profesyonel Rehberlik<\/p>\n<p>I\u00e7e d\u00f6n\u00fck m\u00fc yoksa d\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fck m\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fcz? Bunu anlamak i\u00e7in asl\u0131nda ki\u015filik testi alman\u0131za pek de gerek yok. Insan hissedebiliyor, ancak baz\u0131 ki\u015filik testleri bunun derecesini de size verir. \u00c7ok farkl\u0131 testler alm\u0131\u015f ve denemi\u015f bir profesyonel olarak, a\u00e7\u0131k ve net bir \u015fekilde \u201cd\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fck\u201d bir ki\u015fili\u011fim oldu\u011funu testlerle de kan\u0131tlad\u0131ktan sonra i\u00e7e d\u00f6n\u00fck ki\u015filiklerin d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmeye koyuldum. Zira i\u015f d\u00fcnyas\u0131, d\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fcklere prim verirken, i\u00e7e d\u00f6n\u00fckleri pek fazla d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme zahmetine katlanm\u0131yor.\u00a0 \u00d6rne\u011fin d\u00fcnyadaki CEO\u2019lara bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda ezici bir \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011fun \u201cd\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fck\u201d oldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz. Bir de buna tek y\u00f6nl\u00fc bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131yla ele al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f ders notlar\u0131 eklenince, i\u00e7e d\u00f6n\u00fckler kendini bir garip hisseder oluyor.<a rel=\"attachment wp-att-857\" href=\"http:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/2010\/11\/03\/dogru-bildiginiz-yanlislar-%e2%80%9casla-yalniz-yemek-yemeyin%e2%80%9d\/asianbabies_fatmanur_erdogan\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-857\" title=\"asianbabies_fatmanur_erdogan\" src=\"http:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/10\/asianbabies_fatmanur_erdogan-243x300.jpg\" alt=\"asianbabies_fatmanur_erdogan\" width=\"243\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Temelde i\u00e7e d\u00f6n\u00fck ki\u015fi enerjisini kendi i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131ndan almay\u0131 tercih ediyor. D\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fck ki\u015filerse enerjisini d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyadan al\u0131yor.<\/strong> \u0130\u00e7e d\u00f6n\u00fck ki\u015fi yo\u011fun bir g\u00fcn\u00fcn ard\u0131ndan enerji toplamak i\u00e7in \u201c\u00e7o\u011funlukla\u201d eve gidip dinlenmeyi arzu ederken, d\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fck ki\u015fi birka\u00e7 arkada\u015fla sohbet etmeyi tercih ediyor.<\/p>\n<p>Ideal olan, gerekti\u011finde d\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fck, gerekti\u011finde i\u00e7e d\u00f6n\u00fck davranabilmektir. S\u00fcrekli <a href=\"http:\/\/www.biltek.tubitak.gov.tr\/gelisim\/psikoloji\/kisilik.htm\">iki ekstremde olmak<\/a> pek de dengeli bir yap\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6stergesi olmuyor.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00fcy\u00fck \u015firketlerde \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda ilgin\u00e7 manzaralarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fabiliyorsunuz. Her \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan ayn\u0131 saatte yeme\u011fe \u00e7\u0131kamayabiliyor. Bazen baz\u0131lar\u0131 tek ba\u015f\u0131na yemek yiyerek, kafa dinlemek istiyor (d\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fck olsa da). \u00a0Ne de olsa g\u00fcn\u00fcn yo\u011funlu\u011fu ve yorgunlu\u011fu y\u00fcksekse, yemek aralar\u0131 ki\u015finin yemekte de i\u015f konu\u015fmaktansa, kafas\u0131n\u0131 dinlendirdi\u011fi bir zaman&#8230;\u201cAsla yaln\u0131z yemek yemeyin\u201d bilgisi e\u011fitimciler taraf\u0131ndan i\u015f insanlar\u0131n\u0131n beynine kaz\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan beri, tek ba\u015f\u0131na yemek yemek ki\u015fide \u201cacaba nas\u0131l alg\u0131lan\u0131r\u0131m\u201d \u015f\u00fcphe ve korkusunu yayar oldu\u011fu gibi, yanl\u0131z yemek yiyen ki\u015fiye de \u201cyaln\u0131z\u201d oldu\u011fu alg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmakta \u00f6nemli rol oynad\u0131. Bundan en fazla etkilenenler <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theintrovertedleaderblog.com\/category\/introvert\">i\u00e7e d\u00f6n\u00fck yap\u0131ya sahip olanlar<\/a> oluyor genelde.<\/p>\n<p>Ben bu \u00f6\u011fretiye farkl\u0131 bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 kazand\u0131rmak istiyorum:<\/p>\n<p>Can\u0131n\u0131z istedi\u011fi zaman tek ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za yemek yiyin.<\/p>\n<p>Zaman sizin zaman\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Ihtiya\u00e7 sizin ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Yaln\u0131z yemek yemek g\u00fczeldir, ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z buysa&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Ayn\u0131 i\u015f yerinde s\u00fcrekli yaln\u0131z yemek yeme e\u011filiminde olan bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z varsa, yan\u0131na gidin, birlikte yemek yemeyi teklif edin. Ta ki ki\u015fi kendini sizinle rahat hissedene ve birlikte yemek yemek i\u00e7in rahat\u00e7a yan\u0131n\u0131za gelmeyi tercih edene kadar. <strong>Hani \u015fu \u00e7ok me\u015fhur \u201ctak\u0131m oyuncusu olma\u201d becerisi var ya. \u0130\u015fte, en iyi b\u00f6yle tak\u0131m olunur.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yaln\u0131z yemek yemeyin s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn alt\u0131nda genelde \u00e7evrenizi geni\u015fletme fikri yatar. Bu da fena fikir de\u011fil, \u00e7evrenin geni\u015f olmas\u0131 g\u00fczel ve faydal\u0131d\u0131r. Ancak, yemek zaman\u0131 network yapmak i\u00e7in tek zaman de\u011fildir. Tek ortam da de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>En iyi network, i\u015f \u00fcretti\u011finiz zaman yap\u0131l\u0131r. En iyi network, dost oldu\u011funuzda, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakine kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z fayda sa\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda olu\u015fur. Tek ba\u015f\u0131na yemek yiyen \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yaln\u0131z b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda de\u011fil&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Gelece\u011fin ve g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn y\u00f6neticilerinin i\u00e7e d\u00f6n\u00fck ki\u015filikleri daha iyi anlamalar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funa inan\u0131yorum. Zira, her zaman dedi\u011fim gibi \u201ce\u011fitilmi\u015f alg\u0131lar\u201d e\u011fitilmi\u015f beyinlerle m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><em><br \/>\nphoto credit asianbabies.com<\/em><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kariyeryolculugu.com. Kariyer ve Yasam Dengesi Uzerine Profesyonel Rehberlik I\u00e7e d\u00f6n\u00fck m\u00fc yoksa d\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fck m\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fcz? Bunu anlamak i\u00e7in asl\u0131nda ki\u015filik testi alman\u0131za pek de gerek yok. Insan hissedebiliyor, ancak baz\u0131 ki\u015filik testleri bunun derecesini de size verir. \u00c7ok farkl\u0131 testler alm\u0131\u015f ve denemi\u015f bir profesyonel olarak, a\u00e7\u0131k ve net bir \u015fekilde \u201cd\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fck\u201d bir ki\u015fili\u011fim [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"_s2mail":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[44,50,69,79,80],"tags":[],"views":4764,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/855"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=855"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/855\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=855"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=855"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kariyeryolculugu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=855"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}